So you have broken up with your boyfriend and you want to win him back, well first let me say this will be a task to say the least. You will need to be fully committed to this and have courage, patience and understanding to handle the many pressures you will encounter when trying to save a relationship. To make things worse if by chance he has already found another girl that has gotten all his attention and time you will need to be persistent, but not pushy to get him back. If you feel in your heart you can still get him back then you can do it, you will just need some guidance along the way so I have a few tips for you.
First off you must take a clear look at the current situation. You know there was a reason behind the break up, so you must identify this and see what went wrong and how you can correct the problem and keep it from happening again. You will need to learn from your mistakes and not duplicate them again.
Be optimistic, showing patience and a super positive attitude will go along way and is very important when trying to win back your ex-boyfriend. You don’t want to be angry or depressed as no one wants to be around anyone like that. If you are truly depressed then look for some help and talk to someone. The bottom line is if you don’t think deep down in your heart that you can get your ex back then guess what? YOU WON’T! You can not fail if you never try and if you try there is a chance you can be successful, so be positive and anything can happen.
Make sure you stay upbeat and happy-don’t let the situation make you lose your self esteem. You want to go about things with a purpose of getting the end goal and that is back with your ex boyfriend. You however do not want to over pursue and make things worse, don’t be texting or calling him every couple minutes and by no means don’t stalk him. Doing any of these things will almost certainly end all hope for getting back with your ex boyfriend. Men like a challenge so don’t be over the top with all your actions SCREAMING how bad you want to get back with him, and never appear as though you can not survive without him. Just be yourself and remind yourself there are many other ways to let him know you want him back.
If you are a drinker then by no means don’t be drinking then calling or approaching him, you want to have a clear mind and not let alcohol get in the way and bring about depression or anger and make things worse. So again under no circumstances never call or approach him if under the influence of alcohol this only spells trouble as you never know what you might say and that would only end any chance of ever getting back together.
So the bottom line is if you feel you want to get back together with your ex-boyfriend then you can do it. It will take time, effort and patience, but if that is what you want you can make it happen.
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